We’ve been slowly, bit by bit, sprucing up the kids play area this spring. Replacing the baby swing with big kid swings (because those little legs can pump now), bringing in a couple new loads of sand, shoring up the “fort”, hanging the hammock and adding a ladder swing. Boy, what a difference a little remodel can make.
Those kids had been over there for hours. Hours. From our places in the yard and garden we hear lots of giggling, plenty of screaming (apparently screaming is part of the fun and so we learn to ignore it unless someone comes running), some squabbling and even some silence (while they read and snuggle in the hammock). They had a exquisite mud bakery going for at least two days in the fort, several days of playing house with their chicks (who are happy to peck and scratch around the sandbox) and hours of just swinging. Seriously, just swinging.
I’ve been eager for them to adventure out. I envision forts in the woods, bellies full of berries, and shops selling mud pies by the creek. Playing half the day in sun until the back or your neck tingles and then laying in the dappled shade with ankles full of bramble scratches and the smell of drying mud in your nose feeling like you can do just about anything. And not a grown-up in sight.
Remember?
They haven’t ventured that far yet. But this summer they are already showing how eager they are for that kind of freedom. Sometimes they want us to come and swing with them, but mostly they forget, so immersed in their outside world that we are lost to them for awhile. I see this transition happening before my eyes. I am full of excitement for them and the realization that these girls are growing up and moving out into the world. Sometimes without us.
And so our protective cocoon stretches open and we expand to embrace the risks that we want them to take. How high can I climb in this tree? Will I fall in the creek if I run across the log that straddles it? Will this hammer and saw make what I need and can I carry them that far? Decisions that help them know their abilities. Risks that help them weigh the factors next time. Questions that they answer themselves so that the knowing is theirs.
This is a new adventure for us all. New freedom for everybody. A new season is here and it feels good!